Sunday, May 22, 2011

GBE2 "Expectations"

Haaaa..piping hot folgers and extra heavy cream...now that's what I call blogging java! *smacks her lips* tasty indeed.

I'm a 'No expectation, No demands' kinda gal. Nah, that's a fat lie... I should have said "I would like to think that I am one of those 'No expectations, No demands' kinda gal" . . . But, I'm not. *sighs*

I feel it is human nature to have certain expectations in life. Such as we purchase something, makes no difference what the item is, and we as the buyer have a certain amount of expectation of whatever for said item purchased. Or, when we do something for others, we have certain expectations there also, such as thankfulness, and respect for doing something nice.

It is when our expectation become so high that they seem to become a problematic issue. Or, when we become so narcissistic that we expect the world to revolve around us. Ha, that seems to be the way of the world these days. *shakes her head and sigh* - I suppose I could go on and on about the human condition and society and the role it plays in our 'expectation' levels etc...but I am just not that deep.. *sticks her tongue out at everybody*

I suspect people tend to expect way to much of themselves. I am also of the mind that we as humans tend to expect others to expect a lot from us also. sound crazy doesn't it. Ha!

Over time comes wisdom and with that wisdom I have come to the idea that I try and not expect too much from anybody, self included, and or anything. Of course I am not an idiot, I expect to get what I pay for, I expect a certain amount of respect and consideration from people, I do expect myself to stay true to who I am. yadda yadda yadda..

....oh, and I expect to really enjoy this GBE2 both blogging and ready all of your blogs. Hope you got what you expected from reading this blog...*giggles*


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54 comments:

  1. AnonymousMay 22, 2011 at 7:17 PM

    We do have certain expectations, don't we? Well written.

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  2. gawysmiffMay 22, 2011 at 7:18 PM

    I always expect a smile from you and you never let me down. That's why Pops loves you!!

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  3. Montana LadyMay 22, 2011 at 7:18 PM

    yes, as much as we want to not have them, we do...sometimes too much, sometime not enough..just life everything in life..it's a balance. Thanks for reading...*smiles*

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  4. Montana LadyMay 22, 2011 at 7:19 PM

    Hey gawwysmiff...giggles..You make me smiles...so it's all your fault...Hugs

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  5. Montana LadyMay 22, 2011 at 7:20 PM

    puddin', can u believe we are blogging again???? *does an inside my heart cartwheel*

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  6. JennMay 22, 2011 at 7:22 PM

    I do believe you are right ... we all have expectations...I think how high we set the bar for those expectations can lead to how surprised, happy or disappointed we are when those expectations are met or not met.

    I have to say, I love your writing style. You had me in that first paragraph!!

    Cheers, Jenn.

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  7. MarianMay 22, 2011 at 7:26 PM

    Sounds like wise words to me! Great blog!

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  8. Dances With VodkaMay 22, 2011 at 7:31 PM

    I expect you to always give me more reasons to adore you every day and you have never let me down. This post was no exception. Your silliness is something that I desperately need in my life. You have brought so many smiles and giggles to my face. I'm so glad you are blogging with the group!

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  9. Dances With VodkaMay 22, 2011 at 7:31 PM

    I also expect you to remove the captcha thing on blog commenting. Pretty please?

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  10. MrsWilkMay 22, 2011 at 7:39 PM

    Great piece of writing. I like your chit-chatty style, too.

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  11. Montana LadyMay 22, 2011 at 7:50 PM

    how do i remove the capta thingy?

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  12. Montana LadyMay 22, 2011 at 7:52 PM

    Thanks MrsWilk. I look forward to u reading my chit-chat. *smiles*

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  13. Montana LadyMay 22, 2011 at 7:53 PM

    Thanks Jenn..welcome to my crazy lil blog world..smiles..come often..tell ur friends..*giggles*

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  14. Kim ReyesMay 22, 2011 at 9:01 PM

    i expect to keep following you and also to enjoy the GBE2 :)

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  15. Montana LadyMay 22, 2011 at 9:01 PM

    boy, u expect a lot donja?? hehe! Loves u kimi ~HUGS~

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  16. pbquigMay 22, 2011 at 10:08 PM

    I had already started following you and glad I did. I love someone who loves to enjoy life and have fun.

    Pam
    A Pirate Looks Past Sixty

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  17. Montana LadyMay 23, 2011 at 7:06 AM

    Far Out Pam. Glad you are here! *smiles*

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  18. Mojo WritinMay 23, 2011 at 8:07 AM

    Loved the blog... but found myself with one question... what is folgers? Heavy cream I know (we call it double cream)but is the other a kind of coffee or something? Anyway, I expect an answer ;)

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  19. Montana LadyMay 23, 2011 at 8:55 AM

    *giggles@Mojo* Folger's is an American brand of Coffee. it's a little nutty and smooth...

    was the answer as u expected?? ;P

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  20. Langley CornwellMay 23, 2011 at 10:19 AM

    Very cool blog, and I'd like to say I'm a no expectation, no demands kinda gal but that would be a big, fat lie too. Hearts in Fur Coats

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  21. Montana LadyMay 23, 2011 at 10:44 AM

    ty Langley. looking forward to reading yours. *smiles*

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  22. AnonymousMay 23, 2011 at 2:16 PM

    You mean the world doesn't revolve around you and me????? Well, damn. ;O)

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  23. UnknownMay 23, 2011 at 4:58 PM

    Words from the wise. Well done!!
    Kathy
    http://www.thetruckerswife.com/

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  24. Montana LadyMay 23, 2011 at 7:07 PM

    hehe, sorry to inform you Bethie, that NO, the world doesn't revolve us, or anybody else for that matter...I wish i was that powerful!

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  25. Montana LadyMay 23, 2011 at 7:09 PM

    tyty kathy. off to read urs now..*smiles*

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  26. AnonymousMay 24, 2011 at 3:11 AM

    Cute post! It brought a smile to my face. Like the breezy tone.

    I hear you about expectations. We have to have some but I think we learn to lower them or we'll be constantly disappointed in this imperfect world.

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  27. Theresa WizaMay 24, 2011 at 5:06 AM

    I, too, love the tone of your blog. Very cute! I didn't "expect" that ;)

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  28. UnknownMay 24, 2011 at 5:49 AM

    Hi Montana Lady! Haven't talked to you in a while.

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  29. Montana LadyMay 24, 2011 at 11:05 AM

    Hi there Katy! read ur blog..smiles..glad we are hooked back up. I always love to read ur blogs. Hugs

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  30. AnonymousMay 24, 2011 at 12:24 PM

    What an easy going blog this was! I really enjoyed it.

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  31. Tony PayneMay 24, 2011 at 12:44 PM

    I think GBE2 is going to take off really well, and this week's word is an excellent choice. Nice to see how it has led to many of us talking about our lives and expectations.

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  32. JulMay 24, 2011 at 1:44 PM

    Love that wisdom comes with age is pretty awesome it does help one to look at the world differently.

    great job hon

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  33. MrsWilkMay 24, 2011 at 2:00 PM

    I agree with Tony. Great topic!

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  34. Mojo WritinMay 24, 2011 at 2:17 PM

    Sorry, slow getting back to you, but... yes, the answer was exactly as I expected :D Thank you!

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  35. UnknownMay 24, 2011 at 2:25 PM

    Wise words and a great blog!!

    Kathy
    http://www.thetruckerswife.com/

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  36. clsMay 24, 2011 at 6:07 PM

    Love the peace sign. I know I expect too much of myself, and of others, and with that comes let down... but I think it all just keeps "it" real, keeps us trying get ahead of the game just so there is some sort of challenge in life.

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  37. Montana LadyMay 24, 2011 at 6:26 PM

    thanks for visiting and chatting with me. I too Love this topic and think GBE2 is going to become a great blogging experience as the name suggest.

    I look forward to reading each of your blogs each week.

    feel free to stop by my other blogs on this acct.

    Peace Out! mwah!

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  38. Brenda StevensMay 24, 2011 at 9:14 PM

    SWWWWEEEEEEEEEEET light airy..omy gosh adore you! hehe i think i am not going to bed early tonite..too much discovery going on!! ((hugs)) great to meet you...an ya...tata LOL

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  39. paigeMay 25, 2011 at 5:27 AM

    No expectation, No demands

    as it should be, my friend ♥

    I'm digging that about you already!

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  40. eeyornMay 25, 2011 at 7:02 AM

    Hi Montana, I think we met before on myspace, its nice to catch up with you again. I like your easy blogging style and your down-to-earth take on the subject. I expect I'll be back next week :-)

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  41. Montana LadyMay 25, 2011 at 8:16 AM

    thanks DrHoneydew - nice to meet u also. Hugs

    Hi peacegirl...HUGS! Peace babe!

    eeyorn, Ha, I remember you...*smiles* good to see u again..oh the myspace days...loads of fun back then...hugs

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  42. JayMay 25, 2011 at 12:22 PM

    I never thought that expectations could be inherent in human nature, but I suppose you're right. We make predictions, so we have certain expectations of what the results are going to be. Hmmm, now you've got me thinking. :)

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  43. MaryannMiniVMay 25, 2011 at 1:11 PM

    As kooky as you sometimes try to come across (:oP), you made a lot of sense this time!

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  44. Claudia MoserMay 25, 2011 at 2:32 PM

    Great start, I hope we will enjoy this common experience!

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  45. Montana LadyMay 25, 2011 at 4:06 PM

    SHUT UP Maryann..I DO NOT MAKE SENSE. Ima kooky broad.;P hugs! glad u liked it.

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  46. Montana LadyMay 25, 2011 at 4:12 PM

    Claudia, Im already enjoying it. look forwards to new post daily..:)

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  47. Coffee and ConversationMay 26, 2011 at 5:52 AM

    Great to see you again and glad you are a part of GBE2. I have to agree, sometimes we really are too hard on oursleves and others - to our detriment.

    Nice job!

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  48. NicoleMay 26, 2011 at 3:44 PM

    There's nothing wrong with expecting a certain amount of respect from people. That's one thing that has been wrong with this world for a while...nobody seems to respect anybody anymore!

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  49. Montana LadyMay 27, 2011 at 2:13 PM

    i hear that! I was raised to respect myself and others...what happen to that?? :(

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  50. pbquigMay 27, 2011 at 7:57 PM

    You have won Versatile Blogger, from Beth to me to you. Pick it up at:
    http://apiratelookspastsixty.blogspot.com/2011/05/versatile-blogger-seriously.html

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  51. Montana LadyMay 27, 2011 at 9:08 PM

    HUH?! What? I won an award??? NOW FREAKIN WAY! I'd like to thanks my fans, and the academy and all my fellow actors and actresses....oh wait, wrong speech.. FAR OUT THANKS BETHIE! THANKS EVERYONE! Peace!

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  52. EccentricityMay 28, 2011 at 8:47 AM

    I also pretty much expect good customer service. ;-)

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  53. AnonymousMay 28, 2011 at 6:13 PM

    Why yes I do expect the bra I just bought to support my girls in a certain way! LoL Very enjoable and true read. =) Thanks.

    `chickee

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  54. AnonymousMay 28, 2011 at 6:21 PM

    Good blog

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